A Prayer for Writers

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For those who have participated in NaNoWriMo this year, the journey has been difficult. I know, for me, the experience has been very hard. It’s easy to get caught up in those comparisons when we see others succeed and we struggle with our works. We question our passion, ourselves, and feel like giving up.

I may not know how you are feeling right now, dear writer. Maybe you feel like me: trying to find your way and wondering where your heart in your work is right now.

But, the uncertainty will never last forever. You will find your way again. Maybe a work needs more time because that’s what will make it great. That’s okay! Never compare yourself to others, especially during NaNoWriMo. Accomplishing a word count of any kind, no matter how big or small, is more than you had before starting.

Tonight, I pray for your health, confidence, and heart in writing. I pray you will not give up and keeping trying, no matter the project. I pray you find the support systems to see you through every pitfall and triumph in the writing life.

I also pray you hold on to the joy of writing, because that is what makes a writer amazing. Not fancy words, a hard work ethic, etc. Those are nice. However, the heart is the key that creates your best work.

Amen.

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What Are You Grateful For?

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With Thanksgiving just around the corner, I thought I’d take a moment to name the things I am grateful for this year, writing related or not.

Writing Things I’m Grateful FoR

  1. Books: Many books have inspired my writing and my life from the classics to some of our latest releases. Thank you for the lessons I’ve learned, the inspiration I needed, and the perspectives I have gained!
  2. Hallmark Publishing: Being blessed to read and review their books this year has been incredible! I have renewed hope about wholesome romances and some inspiration I might use for my own work.
  3. New Writing Opportunities: From HEAL(er) Mag’s new direction to being a BFF for Mesu Andrews’ Book Launch Team (see icon on my side bar), I am finding new and creative ways to expand my skills and learn a new thing or two myself! Thank you to everyone who believes in me and for taking me on during these new adventures!
  4. NaNoWriMo: I am FAR behind right now. But I have written more than I’ve had in MONTHS, and that is something I am thankful for. 

OTHER THINGS I’M GRATEFUL FOR

  1. Montana: My late summer excursion to Montana gave me two weeks to reconnect with nature and appreciation the beauty of this country. My social media break during this trip was perfect timing and brought me to the present. For once, I could put the phone down!
  2. My job: From my co-workers to the challenges I’m currently facing, I know that they will make me stronger. I just have to keep that mindset and push forward.
  3. David Archuleta: From his newest Christmas album Winter in the Air to having the pleasure to see him again earlier this year, I am grateful for his example, that he’s happy, and his continued growth. I’m also blessed that I will be seeing him again next month during his Christmas tour.
  4. Perspective: I’ve talked about perspective a lot with friends, co-workers, and fellow church members for almost two years now. It was a lesson I really needed to learn to move forward in my life. I believe it has influenced all the many blessings I have received this year, and became my greatest teacher.
  5. Family: Family can be crazy, up and down, and all around. But, they’re still your family. Remember the good, and try to forgive the bad.
  6. God: Last but most certainly not least, God. For His Word, the gifts I have received from Him, and more. 2019 will mark ten years since I became a born-again Christian and turned my life  around. I still have a lot to learn, but I am in a much better place. 

What are you grateful for this Thanksgiving? Share your thoughts in the comments!

Happy writing!

Returning to NaNoWriMo

 

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For many writers right now, it’s NaNoWriMo season. Outlines, typing on computers or typewriters at a steady pace, lots of coffee if you drink coffee, and word sprints. It’s a challenging, rewarding, and exciting time.

As some of you know, I participated in NaNoWriMo for the very first time in 2016. I also went to my first writing residency at this time, too. I didn’t reach 50,000. Instead, I had written about 26,000 words. Last year, I chose not to participate for various reasons. A part of me felt like a failure for not reaching 50K. I also questioned my writing abilities and truly felt the dream of writing the novel was aloof after all.

So what made me decide to give NaNoWriMo another shot for 2018?

Last week, I was looking at writing stuff on Twitter and saw a comment about a person feeling put down by someone else for how he wanted to approach NaNoWriMo this year.

I was disgusted.

Unfortunately, even in the writing community we have people who put others down instead of building one another up. It’s a feeling I’ve struggled with in regards to fandom stuff. Now, I saw that here.

Upon reading the tweet, I saw many positive responses telling this person to do what he thought was best for him. That NaNoWriMo could be done any way he pleased. Yes, the novel is the main approach, but you could do other things.

That’s when the thought entered my head: “Maybe I should do NaNoWriMo again.”

I have no outline. No idea where my project is going to go by the end of the month. I’m pulling ideas out of my head and writing them down. I have a theme, working title, and that’s pretty much it.

But I am going to give this another shot.

The blog may be quieter throughout the month for this reason alone. I want to prove myself wrong and see that I can write a novel. Sometimes, the more you do something the better you get at it.

Wish me luck.

Happy writing and good luck to my fellow writers and participants. Also today is Double-Up Donation Day. Go donate and write beyond your wildest dreams!!

Writing Prompt: Halloween

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Since Halloween is a few days away, I thought of sharing a quick prompt to get in the holiday spirit. Let’s stick to short stories for this one! Here are some themes to consider:

  1. Jack-O-Lanterns
  2. Halloween Parties
  3. Trick or Treating
  4. Black Cats (today is also Black Cat Day!)
  5. Magic
  6. Witches
  7. Goblins and Ghouls
  8. Haunted Houses
  9. And more!

Don’t be afraid to check out your favorite Halloween movies or books for some ideas! I recently finished rereading Carrie by Stephen King in celebration of the holiday. Also, my writer friend, Jolene Haley, and other writers have an annual artist and writer showcase for October going on right now! This year’s theme is Beware! Dark Seas. Head on over to her website to check out this year’s entries.

Happy writing!

Getting Back to Basics

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I had an interesting epiphany earlier this week.

Change, for many of us, is hard. Stressful, overwhelming, even unfair depending on the situation. We want things to remain as they are and not change because we don’t like a certain direction we may be heading towards. We weigh on decisions that have to be made. On Thursday, I found myself in this situation.

Until a thought from a woman I spoke with about my struggles made me pause. She had commented to me about “getting back to basics” with things. For some reason, that comment made me think back to my writing. How all of a sudden writing had become stagnant for me. That I was so focused on everything else that writing slipped into the background and out of sight. That my writing desk and book shelf was getting very disorganized, collecting dust, and left untouched unless I grab a book or my laptop.

As I write this, I see rain briefly coming down even though the sun is shining bright. Heh, that always catches my attention for some reason. Maybe because it’s a sign of despite any sadness that may come your way, the joy will always outshine the pain.

So, it’s time for me to get back to basics so I can write again. Because I have a lot to say.

Happy writing, and please, keep writing. when the going gets tough. Also, don’t ever be afraid to start over to find your way back.

When You Cannot Find Words

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I think we all can agree that writing is a challenge for various reasons: reworking outline after outline, dropping or adding scenes, changing characters, and so on.

But what happens when you cannot find the words to put your story on paper or computer? You have idea after idea in your head, and they sound great! You think to yourself, “This would make a great story,” or “I cannot stop thinking about this character.”

But then when you make time to sit down at your desk or wherever you write, nothing comes up.

This is something I’ve struggled with as I’m sure you have. Is it self-doubt creeping in when you’re not looking? Is it thinking too much about being perfect with your manuscript or piece? I would answer yes to both questions.

We all get scared of what we share with the world. The critics, complete strangers, and more that could tear your work apart without even knowing you. The self-critic haunting your soul and telling you your work is not good enough.

So how do we confront these demons and the things out of our control?

  • Surround yourself with people who support you
  • Give yourself breaks to get in touch with your heart and soul (I really think there’s a deep connection between what we write and what lies in one’s heart)
  • Look back on previous works that you are proud of and remind yourself you can do it again
  • Remember words shared by friends, fellow writers, authors you admire that made you feel confident
  • Write; and don’t censor yourself.

I’m sure I can list many more things you could do. We can get out of the funk and try again. Be the writer you were meant to be, and remember that one can always get better with hard work and persistence.

Your work will be remembered one day.

Happy writing!

Writing Prompt: Fall

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The first day of fall is a couple hours away! I’m excited for the season: cooler temperatures, the leaves changing, a time to pause and enjoy nature, and cider donuts.

Here’s a prompt to get you excited for fall:

Free Write: Write about the Fall season however you choose, but make sure your piece includes at least one of these themes, objects, or symbols:

  • Apple picking
  • Fall foliage
  • Cider donuts
  • Pumpkins (you can mention Halloween)
  • Farms (hay rides, picking out fall decorations, etc.)
  • Pumpkin Spice Latte
  • Pecan Pie
  • Football
  • Sweaters
  • Caramel Apples
  • Leaf peeping

Happy writing!